She.

She was strangely resilient to drugs, alcohol and destruction; that was her super power. Everyone wants a super power -- that was hers.

He was defeated and retreated. She went on to be boisterous and beautiful, strong and dignified. She used her super power to go to those kind of places, and to protect those who weren't as lucky as she was. She was some kind of missionary I suppose... or at least she wanted to be.

But she wasn't sure how to apply that sort of thing to real life - which was, never in fact, meant to be a party.